Discover Your Default Identity Pattern

Discover Your Default Identity: Reveal Your Love, Money & Self-Worth Patterns with This Free Quiz

Take the free Default Identity Quiz and uncover the subconscious patterns holding you back in love, money, and self-worth. Learn your type, feel deeply understood, and get actionable insights to rewire your default for magnetic confidence, wealth, and irresistible relationships.

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Question 1 of 15

When someone doesn’t text you back immediately, your first thought is…

Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).
Tally your letters at the end.

A

"Do they still like me? Did I do something wrong?”

B

“I’ll wait and protect myself; they’ll reach out if it’s meant to be.”

C

“I should tell them exactly what I need to fix this.”

D

“I guess I’ll just wait to see if they choose me.”

E

“I hope I didn’t mess up; maybe I overthought my message.”

F

“No worries. They’ll respond in their time.”

Question 2 of 15

When a big opportunity arises, you usually…

Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).
Tally your letters at the end.

A

Seek reassurance from others before deciding.

B

Hesitate and overthink the risks.

C

Take charge immediately and try to control the outcome.

D

Wait for confirmation or permission from someone else.

E

Analyze every detail obsessively before acting.

F

Step in confidently and trust your instincts.

Question 3 of 15

In relationships or partnerships, you tend to…

Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).
Tally your letters at the end.

A

Worry constantly if you’re doing enough to be valued.

B

Hold back emotionally to avoid conflict.

C

Do more than your fair share to ensure everything works.

D

Let the other person lead, putting your desires second.

E

Critique yourself and the plan constantly.

F

Communicate openly, trust your decisions, and maintain balance.

Question 4 of 15

When things don’t go as planned, your reaction is…

Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).
Tally your letters at the end.

A

Anxiety and self-doubt — “Did I mess up?”

B

Withdrawal or detachment to protect yourself.

C

I grind, hustle, and overwork to “earn it.”

D

I start then stop... fear keeps me from going all in.

E

I dream big but struggle to anchor plans.

F

I follow through with clarity, ease, and consistency.

Question 5 of 15

At social events or group activities, you…

Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).
Tally your letters at the end.

A

Seek validation, and feel anxious if things are uncertain.

B

Stay on the sidelines, keeping others at a distance.

C

Step in to manage or solve things.

D

Wait to be invited or chosen for key roles.

E

Overthink interactions, worrying what others think.

F

Relax, engage authentically, and enjoy the connection.

Question 6 of 15

When you receive constructive criticism, you usually…

Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).
Tally your letters at the end.

A

Take it personally and worry about being liked.

B

Shrink back or avoid confrontation.

C

Take action immediately, sometimes overcompensating.

D

Hesitate and wait to see what others do.

E

Analyze and critique yourself endlessly.

F

Accept it, adjust if needed, and keep moving forward.

Question 7 of 15

When making important decisions, you…

Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).
Tally your letters at the end.

A

Ask for reassurance before committing.

B

Hesitate to act because you fear mistakes.

C

Take control and plan everything meticulously.

D

Wait for approval or guidance from someone else.

E

Overanalyze every option before choosing.

F

Trust your gut and move forward confidently.

Question 8 of 15

Your money mindset is usually…

Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).
Tally your letters at the end.

A

Worry-driven; I need approval to feel financially safe.

B

Conservative; I avoid risk to feel secure.

C

I overwork and over-plan to “earn my worth.”

D

Hesitant; I wait for the “right opportunity” or someone else to lead.

E

Overanalyze spending and investing decisions constantly.

F

Confident; I know I can attract resources aligned with me.

Question 9 of 15

When someone expresses love or appreciation, you…

Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).
Tally your letters at the end.

A

Wonder if it’s genuine or enough.

B

Pull back emotionally to avoid disappointment.

C

Go above and beyond to prove your worth.

D

Wait silently to see if it continues.

E

Analyze whether you’ve “earned” it.

F

Receive it fully and feel secure.

Question 10 of 15

How do you handle change or uncertainty?

Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).
Tally your letters at the end.

A

Hypervigilant, overthinky, tense. Worry and seek validation.

B

Numb, distant, self-isolating. Retreat or emotionally protect yourself.

C

Overfunctioning...I jump into action. Try to control every outcome.

D

Paralyzed and indecisive. Freeze and wait for guidance.

E

Escaping into fantasy, dreaming, or distraction. Obsess over details and worst-case scenarios.

F

Regulating, grounding, and recalibrating. Adapt fluidly and trust the process.

Question 11 of 15

When pursuing a goal, you…

Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).
Tally your letters at the end.

A

Worry about whether others will approve.

B

Avoid risk, sometimes missing chances.

C

Work excessively to make sure it happens.

D

Wait for someone else’s validation before acting.

E

Perfect every step, delaying progress.

F

Move confidently, trusting your intuition and skills.

Question 12 of 15

How do you approach self-care?

Choose the answer that resonates most for each question (A–F).

Tally your answers.

Your most frequent letter = your Default Identity.

A

Rarely prioritize yourself; focus on others’ approval.

B

Sometimes neglect self-care to stay “safe.”

C

Over-schedule self-care or plan it to perfection.

D

Wait for external cues to feel deserving.

E

Critique your efforts and feel like it’s never enough.

F

Care for yourself naturally, feeling deserving and balanced.

Question 13 of 15

When things go wrong in love or career, you…

A

Panic and blame yourself.

B

Withdraw to avoid further hurt.

C

Take responsibility immediately, sometimes excessively.

D

Wait for someone else to fix it.

E

Analyze every detail endlessly.

F

Stay calm, assess, and take aligned action.

Question 14 of 15

How do you feel about receiving gifts, praise, or money?

A

Nervous; unsure if it’s deserved.

B

Hesitant; I fear obligations or disappointment.

C

I often give more than I receive.

D

I wait to be chosen or offered.

E

I question if it’s perfect or fair.

F

I receive easily and gratefully.

Question 15 of 15

When reflecting on your personal growth, you…

Choose the answer that resonates most for each question (A–F).

Tally your answers.

Your most frequent letter = your Default Identity.

A

Worry about whether you’re “enough.”

B

Protect yourself, avoiding deep reflection.

C

Push yourself excessively to improve.

D

Wait for others’ guidance to grow.

E

Critique yourself harshly, seeking perfection.

F

Feel balanced, curious, and open to evolution.

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When someone doesn’t text you back immediately, your first thought is… Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).Tally your letters at the end.

When a big opportunity arises, you usually… Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).Tally your letters at the end.

In relationships or partnerships, you tend to… Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).Tally your letters at the end.

When things don’t go as planned, your reaction is… Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).Tally your letters at the end.

At social events or group activities, you… Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).Tally your letters at the end.

When you receive constructive criticism, you usually… Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).Tally your letters at the end.

When making important decisions, you… Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).Tally your letters at the end.

Your money mindset is usually… Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).Tally your letters at the end.

When someone expresses love or appreciation, you… Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).Tally your letters at the end.

How do you handle change or uncertainty? Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).Tally your letters at the end.

When pursuing a goal, you… Choose the answer that feels most like you (A–F).Tally your letters at the end.

How do you approach self-care? Choose the answer that resonates most for each question (A–F). Tally your answers. Your most frequent letter = your Default Identity.